Jillian, don't get me wrong, I don't think everyone wants an audience. Was actually referring to my particular "friend" who was in on my DD's birth. She is who I had in mind. And other people do like to be the centre of the world, but I did not mean everyone.
I guess im quite different to most, because to be totally honest, i'd be happy if it were just me and a midwife. Like Beck, I had an awesome midwife and would've been totally happy with just her (sorry DH, no offence)!!! xox