omg - that sounds hideous! Poor lady - hope she was able to heal well. What was she doing??!!

I have not started yet - and so many of you seem to have got by fine without it. I have tried a few times, but find it awkward and still not too sure what I really should be doing. I think I am needing to just relax about it and accept that if it happens it happens, its not the worse thing that could happen. I dont get stretch marks, but Im not convinced that will help me out down there...


This is great hearing these replies - keep `em coming!

I know! I can't imagine!

I don't get stretch marks either, so I think that helps in not tearing.