Does anything...and I mean anything at all hurt more than child birth?

[lilima]

Def have experienced worse pain.
1 - was a ruptured appendix.
2 was a knee reconstruction, as the pain didn't end for weeks on end.

[Lulu]

I think having your heart broken is alot worse than childbirth...

[MantaRay]

That question makes me uncomfortable actually, as I think that focussing on the pain causes a lot of fear in pg women and this usually translates into a bad birthing experience. Personally my second birth was more painful due to not having an epidural as I did the first time. Yet it was a far more satisfying experience and I enjoyed it far more. I think, due to the context, the pain in childbirth is different to anything else you will experience. And it certainly is something which is manageable and well worth it.

[kawazuki]

yep i have been...

try crashing your bike 8 weeks after bub was born at 180km at teh race track ( used to race and was practising)breaking yoru collar bone into 3 pieces, needing plates and screw, damaging all the ligaments in your neck and bruising both knees and having gall stones at teh same time
yep id say that was worse than child birth.. id happily have a baby than do that again.

[Madham]

Lulu i agree with you..
Also gall attack is definelty worse, i think child birth is a positive pain if there is such a thing, its almost all forgotten about the moment its over.

[Catastrophic]

YES! Giving birth was the most amazing pain i ever felt it gave me such a rush and amens (sp?) joy how ever you give birth to take in that all that pain was for something so incredibly special!!!

The worst pain i have ever felt, would have to be post-gallbladder-removal surgery followed very closely by gallstone attacks!!!

[AliBaby]

Wow what a response.

Kellz- that bike accident sounds horrific.

I am not afraid of child birth as I know it is pain with a purpose but it is in a way reassuring that there are worse pains you can go through.

Lulu- I do agree that a broken heart is painful and I do find emotional pain more difficult to deal with than physical pain.

I have had a ruptured appendix and also a blocked bowel and I remember those were quite painful so I will be interested to see how it compares with child birth for me.

My DP had a petruding disc in his spine which he had to put up with for about 7months before having surgery which he said is the most excrutiating pain ever. In a way I think to myself, that I think he is right.

Like many people have said, the thing about the pain of child birth is that it does go away and has a big reward at the end and each bit of pain that you experience is a step closer to meeting your little baby so it does make it worth it.

Thanks for all your responses. I knew this would be interesting

[kawazuki]

lol ali the accident wasnt that bad sounds worse than it was. the bike was still rideable, lucky i was at teh track and not on the road..

child birth for me was a good pain. i enjoyed it as i knew once she was out id forget about it. and it was sooooo worth it im going back for a 2nd go lol

[aussienic]

In all honesty I have to say kicking my toe hurt more.. silly as it sounds.. But labour is a gradual pain and yeh it hurt but it built up slowly.. Kicking your toe is sudden and unexpected and gauranteed to get a swear word out of me everytime

[Shanti]

In all honesty I have to say kicking my toe hurt more.. silly as it sounds.. But labour is a gradual pain and yeh it hurt but it built up slowly.. Kicking your toe is sudden and unexpected and gauranteed to get a swear word out of me everytime

What about when you hook your little tiny toe (smallest one lol) at the foot of your bed OMG that hurts sooooo bad..... if that hurts more than labour then i'm gonna do great hehehe

[myson]

ok, my turn.

i have heard that passing a kidney stone is the worst thing any man or woman can endure. but i have never done this.

i have however had gall stones, attacks, gall bladder surgery, reflux, ruptured eosophagus, burst stomach ulcer, spinal fracture, horrific wisdom teeth removal leading to broken jaw.hyper-extended knee, and 2 vaginal births.

but none of this was worse than .... recovering from an episiotomy.

sorry ladies, not trying to freak anyone out. but my point is that pain is all relative, things hurt differently for differnt people.

[Shanti]

Mum told me her kidney stones were worse and more painful than all 3 of her labours/births put together!!!!

Alibaby - what i reckon, is that if it was that bad, noone would ever go back for more than 1 child

I reckon it's gonna hurt like hell but it's gonna be sooo worth it!! Bring it on... I'm ready

Pain with purpose!

[Lolli]

Bring it on... I'm ready

Ren that so made me smile- I remember being at that point in pregnancy where you know it's goin to happen so soon and youa re just thinking "Yep! I'm ready! I'm tough! Bring it ooonnn!"

And that's when you know you're body is really starting to kick into gear.

You go girls Knowledge is power.

[~Raven~]

Alibaby - what i reckon, is that if it was that bad, noone would ever go back for more than 1 child

I reckon it's gonna hurt like hell but it's gonna be sooo worth it!! Bring it on... I'm ready

Pain with purpose!

That's the spirit Great attitude!

[Salsa]

I went thru labour and delivery (30hrs from start to finish) 2 weeks ago.
Yes, it hurt - but I wouldnt really say it was pain, if that makes sence?
It was intense. The contractions grip your body, but you gets breaks in between and you know it will end. For me it was not an enjoyable experience and I was not one of the post delivery elated women that you sometimes hear stories of or see photos of (the imediate photo of when they handed him up to me I look horrified )

Basically it was alot of hard work, hence it being called labour. The actual delivery part was most difficult because the pressure to push for me was so strong, but the actual pushing was HARD! Painful, no not really, not for me anyway, it was more the hard work to push that I struggled with. I wasnt prepared for how hard pushing could be and by that stage I was exhausted.



I would imagine that it would be far worse to suffer burns or such than to have a baby. I think there are probably a few things that would be much worse 'pain' wise.

[Evie76]

Nope. I wouldn't say so.

But when it was all over I forgot about how painful it was. I've heard that this is a trick of the brain so that you'll go back and have more. All to preserve the human species.

[Janie]

Um, yeah, pneumonia! I've had it twice, and it is heaps worse than childbirth. Yes, childbirth is painful, but managing it the right way, and going into it with a positive frame of mind, makes it a lovely experience I totally enjoyed it, and can't wait to go back again! And no, mine was not an easy, uncomplicated birth. But I still loved it!

Something to remember with birth is that for much of it the pain comes and goes. So you are not in constant pain for hours on end. Just thought I'd mention that, don't know if anyone else has!

[Ca Plane Pour Moi]

I didn't give birth, but for me, having both your feet broken then the next day your "little" sister sitting on those feet because they were up on the sofa... that hurt more than anything that happened to me before or since. I found contractions and pushing didn't hurt whatsoever. It's like that bit in your period, just before it starts, when you have those warning pains in your birth canal - that's what pushing felt like to me. So not 100% comfortable but nothing I'd call painful.