Awww Kimbaz, that's terrible you feel that way... but I'm sure it's quite common it makes me so angry really... that at such a fragile, vulnerable time we women have to feel this way. Grrrrr! And why? Why are we having this debate? Why can't we be focused on the important stuff like having a positive birth at this time??? At least these open discussions are shedding some light on the reality and that's that no one cares either way! Honestly I really think it's just ourselves that are putting us through this needless torture... and if it's our DHs putting pressure on us to look like pre-pubescents/porn stars then i really thinks it's their issue... not ours! I really don't want to offend anyone by that... I also have given consideration to getting rid of it all... I just found myself questioning why. I do shave my legs because they are a more public part of me... but our privates are our privates... and a whole different story I think.