I was given an episiotomy as bubs was in a huge hurry, I already had two tears and bub still wasn't coming out. TBH I didn't feel the cut at all and I didn't have an aneasthetic (only for the stitching up afterwards), it was all burning anyway and Nakita was out very quickly after the cut. They had also trouble finding her HB as I think she was too low, but I could still feel her kicking me

For me it wasn't the best recovery, but I can't tell whether it was the episiotomy or the tears that caused me more or less pain IFYWIM.

I didn't have any pain relief in labour, but take what they give you afterwards, if you need it take it, no need to be "hero" if you don't need to be

Wishing you a smooth and speedy delivery.