having had two I don't fear an episiotomy. (Seriously if you are stitched up okay they aren't that bad and the voltaren suppositries are wonderful)

I do however fear my child dying during birth, and fear complications that would need me to have an emergency c-section with no time to get to theatre and only local anethestics being availabe due to lack of time (ie what i nearly went thru with lachlan)

Love :smt049