Oh boy... are you ready for a long list?
I fear
- the lack of privacy with a trillion different people looking down your fanny (or up?)
- not feeling like I'm in charge of things (okay, I admit, I am a control freak)
- tearing or being cut and not being able to ever enjoy sex again
- the searing pain everyone describes when the head crowns
- forceps or venthose (cause they will mean epiosotomy)
- the baby being huge
- the baby being ugly (and me going "please put it back, it's not quite done yet") / or more specifically me not bonding with the baby
- that there could be something wrong with the baby (3 arms, 2 noses, you name it)
- the baby being stillborn
- them putting the baby on my chest and me dropping it (seriously, think about how tired you are after giving birth!)
- the look of the umbilical cord and the sound it will make when they cut it
- my husband not wanting to have sex with me ever again after seeing something come out of my vagina
- being traumatzied after birth and not feeling like bonding with my baby
- PND

....... I think this is it... but there might be more things if I have more time to think about it 8-[

Snowy