OMG can I slap her? What a ridiculous thing to say. I agree with what everyone else said, and HELL YEAH I birthed Jonah, no one else went through the pain, 12 hours of labour and 2 hours of pushing before he had to be pulled out. No matter how your baby comes ot whether it be c/s, vacuum, forceps you still birthed your baby and poo and pfffffffffffft to whoever says that you didn't. Tell them to stick their head up their bum and fight for air.