Bek, DS was 5 weeks early, and weighed 5lbs1oz. He wore 00000 for a long time (over 8 weeks), so she'll definitely need some of those. We used Huggies newborns for the first week, until changing to cloth. TBH, they were crap, and things were much better once we started using cloth nappies. If she's going to be using sposies, the yes, some premmie ones might be good.

It really depends on how her bub is. 35 weekers are often really good, and don't have to spend long in SCN, I hope that's the case for your friend's baby. If they are facing an extended visit, then things like meals delivered to home, washing done etc would probably be really helpful, as they'll be spending alot of time in hossy. Mind you, those things are really helpful when you're home with your baby too!!!

If I think of anything else I'll come back.

ETA Oh yeah, I can almost guarantee that she'll have BFing probs, especially if bub goes to SCN!