yeah, ABA is a great idea.

My advice re the breastfeeding is don't let them do bottle for the suck feeds, and say a firm no to formula top-ups. Both of these will affect her supply. The baby even tho prem needs to learn to suck at the breast. And get her on the pump (the hospital should have one) inbetween feeds, especially if they do any tube feeding, use the EBM and not formula. The baby needs to be hungry for breastmilk, not filled up with formula.

I bluntly refused to give permission for formula for my 34 weeker (you actually have to give signed permission for this, yet most hospitals seem to skip that part!!) and I sat at the pump like a cow at the dairy LOL to have EBM for the tube feeds. Mind you I had to fight them sometimes cos she wasn't gaining like they wanted her to (pfft - she was 3.5kg already! LOL)