Just be there for her. Friendship atm is very important. Let her know even tho it is scary bub is only early by 14 days (fullterm 37 weeks). Give lots of hugs and a shoulder to cry on if she needs.

remember shes still celebrating a new bub, no matter the gestation.. so once bub is here, take flowers, balloons etc to make her feel like any new mum, which she is, she just has an impatient bub

as for material things.. things that would be nice are shower gels, shampoo, moisturiser, lip balm.

i agree with the ABA membership

mayb some breast pads.. nipple cream.. heat pack