Thank you all so much for your reply's

Rivals thank you, you did read my mind i have all intentions in speaking to my MW when i have my first appointment which is still a few weeks away so that is why i thought i would ask here as well, once again thank you!!

mummato2 i am not sure what you meant was my third stage managed maybe i am having a blonde moment. They never did end up giving me a reason why, my placenta was GREEN and sent it away to be tested and i was not no news was good news and i never heard anything!! DD had a slight temp when born but was fine!!

trillian and raven i did not really have any feeling until i was haemorrhaging i felt like i was not myself. It happened about 15 minutes after birth i think The only feeling i had that was strange was that i felt like i needed to wee !!! But i didn't it was the clots needing to come out!!! Also i went into labour with DD at home i went to hospital they broke my waters and she had done a poo thats it!!

Thanks for everyone's help I really do appreciate it, I suppose i can not stop it from happening i just need to be aware and make sure everyone else is too!!!