Oh thats horrible it sounds like a know it all busy body type told her that!!! Looking down her nose because of her age and just deciding she can't do it!! She's 16 and first baby sho isn't that optimum energy levels for bf or should we all just not bother??

What about the cost of ff?? perhaps she is not in the best position financially and bf could make a defference to her budget

Maybe give her a call and chat to her..the longer it gets left obviously the harder it will be to turn back. I can imagine for even the strongest willed people that having someone tell u not to bother would be very disheartening especially being your first baby and after what I'm sure was a traumatic birth experience!