How can I get to the point where I know I can do it again?

[Roryrory]

Like the other's have said, Eden wasn't a fluke!

I really think that some one-on-one time with a counsellor who specifically knows about natural birth processes would be a good ting - personally I spent two days one-on-one with a hypnobirth practitioner between DS1 and DS2 which blew away many cobwebs I wasn't even aware of.

[onthefly]

You worked so hard, achieved so much - how could that be a fluke?
I know I have no doubt you can do it.

[YoYo]

New Mantra

'It was not a fluke, it was not a fluke, it was NOT a fluke...I did it, I did it well and I can do it again'

[Jahzara]

Mel

Lots of positive thinking !

I BELIEVE in YOU and your bodies ability to birth your bub 100%
I know you will do it again, it was not a fluke ! You did an awesome job birthing Eden

Do some visualisations - start now - lay down and relax from head to toe and visualise your body opening up. Put yourself in that 'happy place' and allow yourself to visualise !

I have a few ideas that i would like to run past you

I support you 100%



Lots of love to you my friend !
xoxoxo

[Arcadia]

^^this^^

also try looking up unassisted birth on YouTube and start to believe in birth! Your body is perfect and can labour and birth perfectly.