i dont thik it was afluke you did it, you! Your muscles, your guts and determination, how is that a fluke?

If your remembering your labour and your head saying i can't I can't but then you did and you produced a wonderfull little bundle well you can, that was your brain not your body talking.

Can't is my favourite word during the second phase of labour especially when bubs is crowning and tearing me from well you know, but once that head gets out, and the adrenaline is greater than the pain level and then the rest slips out and your whole body relaxes, and then you see that little baby and you know you did all that work, and you feel so proud it only takes me a couple of days to get over what our brains believe is scary.