It's terrible isn't it?! She has been telling her things like if you have a csect you never establish breastfeeding properly!! My friend is cluey enough to know that it is not true.

She is only telling me and one other friend. She will also tell her mum on the day, as she will care for her DS. But she is gooing to make her mum promise not to let anyone else know.

Last time when she was in labour, her SIL was posting updates on FB. And the moment he was born they were all down there, and she was just so overwhelmed, and had to go off to surgery.

Then when I went to her house to visit, SIL brough over champagne to celebrate. Both friend and her DH were exhausted. Here's me, doing their washing and making them lunch etc, and SIL just sat there!