I agree with Kelly. I haven't seen anyone get a pasting when they have mentioned caesarians. People ask others for their opinions on their situations when they are considering c/s and they are given them, if they don't want them they they shouldn't ask for them. And for some people they may be gaining information that they haven't thought of before. People get support here no matter what they choose for their birth, people who have had terminations, gone through IVF and losses also have support. Everyone here is supported, if they weren't then there wouldn't be so many people that come here everyday. It's very rare that someone gets shot down or someone has a go at them for something that they have said or for their beliefs, and when that has happened they have been dealt with and the post removed.

Kelly does a wonderful job and spends lots of time in making this site what it is. I have seen some awful, awful sites out there and if this site went the same way I would be severly disappointed. I think that if anyone has an issue that they feel should be dealt with it should not be done on the public forum and should be for Kelly's eyes only in a private e-mail, which I'm sure she would be only glad to discuss with you privately.