Kelly, I'm sorry you had a cr@ppy day yesterday. :flower: I for one did not post aiming at you and how this site is run, rather I was making a general statement about media etc and this was how I read Bec's original post (hope I'm not being presumptuous, Bec).

How sad for all us women that something as beautiful as giving birth has become a contentious issue...again, I'm talking about the media in general and how women now feel that their birth choices can be harshly judged by others.

This site stands out from all the others that I've seen in that it won't allow obnoxious posts and that is something special. It is nice to know that even when feelings run high posts are always gentle and well-intentioned.