... that once you are pregnant, you belong to the system. If there were anything else wrong with you, organ transplant needed, cancer etc... you have choice and options regarding your care and its respected. But soon as your pregnant, it's my way or the highway, and you are not so fortunate to have choice.

Religiously speaking, a JW can refuse treatment, blood tranfusion etc, but pregnant and you are a bloody idiot for not listening, or there is verbal abuse, no choice, bullying, and scare tactics. If you make a researched, educated decision you are a hippy or irresponsible. So wrong.