thread: Isn't it funny.... (i.e. so wrong...)

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  1. #1
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    Mar 2008
    In my own twisted little universe
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    Hi Girls,

    I found this at the angliss FBC when I initially booked (just had a crappy midwife I think coz all the others have been great)
    she gave me a massive verbal earbashing as DF and I decided not to have ANY tests for DS (Dan's brother has Downs) our deicison was that we wouldn't abort even if the baby did have a genetic abnormality so whats the point in testing for it????
    Then when we went for our dating scan we got another ear bashing from the sonographer.....
    It's amazing how everyone seems to know whats best for you and makes you that you know it

  2. #2
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    Maybe because they do it because they know it works to make you feel guilty or irresponsible. Power trippers.
    Kelly xx

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  3. #3
    Lucy in the sky with diamonds.

    Jan 2005
    Funky Town, Vic
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    Wow, you must have had the crappy one! I didn't even bother going to the doc till I was over 20 weeks (I KNOW when Im preg!), didn't bother with most of the tests and no one seemed to mind. I had the exact same reasons for you refusing those tests....

    Seriously, there is one crap middy there - she gave my sister heaps too. The rest are great.

  4. #4
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    Mar 2008
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    Hey Lulu - I think I found her ....LOL all the other ones's I've seen have been BRILLIANT!!!!

    Kelly - I agree with you some of them are on a power trip, at the end of the day it's my baby and my choice