One of the good things about labour is that you will be totally focussed on it. You will be so keen to push your baby out that you won't care who's looking and you won't care if you poo either. I know you've probably been told that before, and you probably don't believe it, but it's true! Your husband will be so in awe of you that he won't care either. And the midwives, doctors and obstetricians have seen everything before, so they won't care. BTW, you don't actually have to have internals - I have had two babies and no internals at all with either of them. So if you don't like the idea, just say you don't want any examinations unless it's really medically necessary.