Hi Cindy - welcome to BB... come join us other expectant October births in the October thread! (I'm due 3 days after you...)

A few things... firstly, I know heaps of people whose babes haven't engaged until labour; secondly as for saying it's a whopper, most of the time doctors guesses of size are very innacurate.

There are lots of articles and comments here in BB relating to pubis symphysis dysfunction which you should read... It seems to me that it is very commonly misdiagnosed by doctors who are over-eager to interfere with the natural process of giving birth... that said though, I'm sure sometimes it is a legitimate concern and you should listen to your docs advice. Just don't get too stressed yet - your baby still has a couple of weeks up its sleeve to make its move!

I hear you about the pelvic pain - I've been getting it quite badly too. It sucks!

Sending you lots of engaging vibes...