Ashlea,
I'm sure you are having bubs at a hospital near my house , I know plenty of woman that was birthed there and had no problems with the staff following birth plans. But what would be a good idea is to get it laminated and stick it on the back of the door. That way different staff can glimpse over it and read it before they ask questions..often they birth plans can go walk about especially at change of shifts. As for Agpars one fellow bb member had her little one in the shower and nursed while the cord pulsvated with the midwifes observing agpars but giving space to the patient and partner. Weight and stats can be done later.
Are you going through the birthing centre or hospital?
Bec

ETA I didnt have DD there but did my Anti natal classes there and became friends with all of them who did