Have you considered a homebirth? Is there an Independant Midwife around your area that you could talk to?
Considered Yes, but don't qualify (it's even public-ally funded in my area ) The nearest Independant midwife is at Whyalla I think, but that still 8 hours trip away...
would have been awesome to do that, but sadly they don't take you if 1. you have a BMI higher than 35 and 2. you live over an hours drive from the midwifes home