Unfortunately we do have some family members that show up with their horrid uncontrollable son ( that's a whole other story). They did it to me the day after I gave birth and wouldn't get the message to leave. I will be targeting them this time lol.

As I explained to DH, I don't want to worry about iow tidy the house is or whether I'm dressed and presentable. I don't want yo have to hide away in my bedroom trying to breastfed my baby ( because I feel awkward bfing infront of dhs brothesr). And to be honest I don't want my newborn passed from person to person like a pass the parcel game.

The stress of it all- but I'm sticking yo my guns. FWIW, I would never ever go and visit a new fam without calling. Am I the only one?

Thanks for ur responses girls