Yes it certainly does and I wasn't saying it didn't say that..... but can you REALLY see obstetricians and other birthing professionals ACTUALLY letting larger women labour longer? I got told by my public ob who hadn't even opened my file and had never set eyes on me in his life, that because of my size I would have a Csect. I had a 95% chance if I was really desperate to attempt labour, but he wouldn't suggest it. I bawled.
Thankfully all but 3 hours of my 38.5hour labour were spent at home allowing me to do what I wanted. I was too stubborn and I had more faith in myself than most, to allow someone to bully me into full blown intervention. I was able to avoid everything but the gas although I barely used it anyway. I birthed vaginally with no complications.
While the studies might say it's natural for larger women to labour longer, I can't see anyone allowing that to happen unfortunately. I wish that pregnant mothers weren't judged on a few notes someone might have in front of them.![]()






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