Its not so much that I don't agree with her needing one, Its more that I know she thinks thats the easy way out when its not. She doesn't realise that c/s is actually the bad way to have to give birth. Its the pain factor she is scared of & she thinks a c/s is going to take that away but what she doesn't realise is that it will replace it with a major surgery & all the recovery that comes with it.
BFing, well I know I can't win that one, I can only try & encourage her to at least give it a try. I think my older sister would actually be the better person to help her see its not that gross or hard as she has BF'd her kids & bottle fed so I would think she would be able to show her that BFing is easy. I think its mostly the not being able to hand the baby to someone else to feed etc when she is BFing.
Who knows she might shock us all & turn out to be incredibly "mothering" but she really doesn't strike me as the type. That sounds so harsh. I know what I mean...