I got this a lot before my first. When I told ppl I didn't want drugs they would laugh and say talk to me after the birth. I always try to make educated decisions and for me the pros of not having one far outweighed having one. I was more terrified if a needle in my spine than labour and I was also worried that one intervention usually leads to another and another. I have loved birthing both of my babies naturally and wouldn't swap it for anything.