Yes I got that with DS, and now again with #2 DP has already started. The thing is, I did end up with an epi with DS, and I get it the other way. "Oh I bet you're glad to have had one!" etc etc. NO, I was NOT glad. NO, it was not because I couldnt handle labour and the pain with it. It was because I was told I was ready to push when I wasnt, and after 3 hours I was exhausted and couldnt stop my body from then pushing so I could relax and finish dilating properly. People bang on about how "good" it must have been when I got it, its like they turn deaf when I explain why I got it and that it didnt even work properly anyway and I still felt everything as normal except the contractions (stupid ob didnt believe me either when I said I could feel the pain of him stitching me and it was agony). And now DP with #2 thinks I should just go straight to it, he thinks I am crazy for wanting to deliver drug-free. Its caused us some big arguments actually, he thinks I should consider drugs to make HIM feel better about me being in labour .......... Lol yep. Its our baby so he should get a say apparently. anyway i am off topic now lol.

Idk why people care so much on how others birth their babies, why do some seem to feel so threatened by a natural drug free birth??