Sorry Dusty wasn't trying to kill you just recounting every old wives tale I could to help you.
Don't worry about it MrsMac, knew it was in best intentions, I'm sorry if it was a bit abrupt - blame baby brain (I'm currently 36weeks pregnant) and I've lost all my adjectives to have put it better and often don't think about it until after the fact. Just look at the sentence... a few too many words. I'm going to quit while I'm behind, I think.