I have decided not to have Eliza with us. She is just at the age where she is into absolutely everything and if the labour was longer than 5 minutes she would be bored. I also don't want another adult person besides myself and DH (and MW) there so I thought it would be best for her to go to Mum's. I am going to labour for as long as I can at home and be back after the minimum time so hopefully she will get to see her baby sibling soon after.

Good Luck.