Then quite smugly annouced that it was weakened like i had been lieing
WHAT!? But you're not incontinent? If not then i fail to see what he was testing for...?

GRRRRR, i am so mad now! LOL. I'd have grabbed his crotch and reported even more smugly that his Little Man was a VERY Little Man and perhaps that was why he thinks perfectly good pelvic floors are "weakened". Grrrr! Imagine saying that to someone during a pelvic exam! How much more vulnerable could you have been!?

I am SO glad you're changing hun.

Bec