I was laying on my side with my knees slightly apart and held towards my chest, if that makes sense. One thing I was always told was to not push when you feel it start to sting (when the baby is crowning) so when that happened, I stopped and waited (until it starts to subside/feel sort of numb) to give myself time to stretch completely. I also didn't have any drugs which I think can help you feel what is going on a bit more.
1) Squatting on the floor - leaning into birth partner who was sitting in a chair
2) Half lying down, sitting up on the bed - he came out really quickly and I wasn't expecting it!
3) In the water upright on my knees
On my knees, leaning over the raised head of the bed. I have very fast deliveries and that position seems to have helped avoid tearing. And yes, stopping to pant during crowning is important!
Well, I was always on my back - all 5 times. But I dont think it was so much the position, but I refused to let them rush me. I wasn't and wont ever labour to their schedule.
My sister on the other had who has had one more baby than me, and had babies in several different positions - she almost always tore, and pretty bad, because her labours are so fast.
I have birthed 4 babies. All four on my back (that's just how I fell comfortable when pushing). All four no drugs (actually, that's a lie...had a little gas). Gave birth at 17, 20, 25 and 33 years of age. Never had a tear.
I think I am elastic woman....LOL.
ETA: Just wanted to add that all four were quick labours (the longest was six hours) with very short pushing stages. I can't remember the correct times apart from my last birth which was 9 minutes pushing.
Last edited by Marlene; May 22nd, 2009 at 06:45 PM.
Thanks ladies!! Sounds like taking your time pushing is really important and gravity positions. I read somewhere squatting opens the pelvis up the most. I will see how I go. I think some women are just more blessed in that area too.
I was on my back with DS1 and had a first degree tear that was sutured, pushing for 2.5 hours...DS2 i was sort of sitting (on the loo!) 5 mins pushing and only a very minor tear that didnt require any stitches. So not sure on the longer pushing = less tearing, but this is what everyone told me.
ETA: both were over 10lb
Last edited by Pandora; May 22nd, 2009 at 06:40 PM.
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