Of course it shouldn't be too much to ask, but the general attitude of health professionals is that you are asking too much.

I agree to try for a doula (even if it is late notice, even if they are not the most perfect person for you) as long as they are experienced they are better than no-one.

Most of all hang in there, fighting for our rights is all we can do, demanding respect and good quality care is the only way to get it.

Shouldn't be this way but it is.

Take care,
Sarah