and said i was 'super mum' and that a lot of women opt for either.
I think that's part of the problem though LMS. I got that sort of comment too but I don't think its helpful. Am I proud of my two drug free births? Yep, but no more so than my induced, epiduralised birth of DD1. I birthed three children without complications for me or them, but no birth was any more of a victory IYKWIM. Maybe if birthing wasn't turned into an extreme sport by some women and lots of HCP things would be different