DH stayed at home with DS and I got a ride with the midwife to the birth center and had DD by myself. Not ideal, but we didn't have anyone that would look after DS.
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DH stayed at home with DS and I got a ride with the midwife to the birth center and had DD by myself. Not ideal, but we didn't have anyone that would look after DS.
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Like others have said, if she goes to daycare, then you could ask one of them. But if you can't find anyone, then you may have to take her with you. Good luck.
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Im not sure if youre near me either but im happy to help if you are
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My suggestion is to hire a nanny, of course you dont need to use them all the time from now and till then maybe once a week or so, so then DD will be used to the *new person* and will have no problems with the nanny looking after her while you're in labour
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If we stay in tassie, we'll have the kids at the birth with us. If they start getting freaked out, one of my support people will take them for a walk or something.
If we go to queensland, they'll stay with my IL's while I'm giving birth.
But in answer to your actual question about what we did - DS was not quite 3, and DD1 was not quite 16 months, and Sterla came over and looked after them for me.
Do you have a BB member close to you that you trust to watch her?
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If you're anywhere between Brisbane and the Gold Coast I would be happy to help out. It can be so hard when you don't have anyone close. I will have a 2.5 year ols and a 5 month old also so they could keep your little one company.
We're in a bit of a sticky situation too. DF's family isn't suitable to look after DS when we have baby number 2 so we'll be calling both my parents and seeing whoever can make it here fastest. Either way it will take them 1 hour 15 mins to get here, so lets hope I don't labour too fast. I remember thinking the exact opposite with DS, how funny!
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