My wish for both was to learn to RELAX! I learned it during the labour (it made the contractions about 1/4 of the pain!) and if I'd relaxed more when he was a newborn, I think I would have enjoyed it more. Most of the time I felt like I was on a speeding train and couldn't wait for it to stop

I wish I'd known how much stuff I'd have to do one-handed... and I wish I knew how to do it all that way! (It's even too hard to make a cuppa or change a DVD..) Then we got a sling Wish I'd had THAT sooner too!