birth- not to be so scared and work with the pain (like someone else said). wish i had done more mental preperation before hand etc, yoga, massage, accupuncture etc. (and also watched what i was eating a bit more) and kept up some form of exercise.

Baby- i wish i had thrown away all the baby manuals listing milestones and characteristics of babies week to week! i wish i didnt feel guilty for co-sleeping and breastfeeding to sleep cause they were the only ways any of us could cope, yet it wasnt what 'normal' babies do! i wish i had stopped watching the clock and recording feeding times and sleeping times etc and just gone with the flow more often. wish i had stopped comparing my baby to other peoples babies.