Labour: I wish I had not just left everything up to the medical staff believing they knew best. I wish i had done a little bit more research. My pain threshold was not as high as I thought it was. I wish someone had told me that labour was more like doing a marathon run than trying to push out a watermelon (I had looong labours)... the pushing part was not the hard bit... it was getting there in a positive mindset!

After: I wish i had known about the importance of a Babymoon... i hadn't even heard of that phrase. I wish I hadn't feel pressured to go out to a New Year's Eve party one week after giving birth. I should have babymooned for at least a month!!! I learnt this by the time I had my second and third