WOW reading this is a reminder of my last month Sarah . I was told so many times by the OB's at the hospital & relatives that I was putting my baby's and my life in danger by attempting a VBAC. My reason for staying so full on towards a VBAC was I wanted to choose, I wanted to be sure I was making an informed decision & that I was listening to what the actual risks were compared to the threats. As you read a few weeks ago my Mum went nuts freaking out crying & telling relatives that the baby was going to die etc etc, she had no idea. I sat down with her over the last few days & told her about c/s and natural birth, I gave her a bit to read about natural births & c/s and their effects on our bodies. She now understands so much more. And she said if she knew what I knew beforehand she wouldn't have worried so much... its the not knowing that scares so many of us into making decisions that are uninformed & in the end not really the best things for us or our babies.