Sarah, just reading that, and before I got to the end I "knew" you were talking about your older sister. Funny seeing as I've only met her once. Just seemed like something she would say.

Hun you kow as well as I do that there are always going to be people that question your decisions. The ammount of times I got questioned about my birthing plans with Tehya was shocking and even worse once they knew I'd had a previous c section.

I was lucky, I had my mum's full support. She had a c section with her last baby, under a general. It wasn't a positive experience for her. She told me of a fe things that upset her with his birth and I made sure to avoid them with Noah. With Tehya she backed be 120% and even today will tell proudly to her friends "this is my grand daughter who was born in my dining room"

Your sister doesn't understand because basically she just doesn't want to. Unfortunately having the option to just go and choose a c section these days turns some people ignorant, for want of a better word, to natural birth.