Hey Kelly

Could I ask you question............I've been told that my pelvis is to small to birth a 'normal' sized bub as has my mum and sister.Could this be a misdiagnosis?Its just that next time I REALLY want to try for a natural birth but everyone in my family is now trying to persuade me to just having an elective c/s this time as when I had Gemma I went through 23 hrs of labour only to have an emergency c/s of which the doc when he opened me up said that there was no way I was having Gem naturally.

Also this may sound really dumb but, does your pelvis actually open more when you are in labour and could this be the real reason why I couldn't birth Gem?And could stress during labour slow or inhibit a natural birth?I got to 9cm dilated then couldn't progress past that and am wondering if it was because I was so worked up and exhausted.