What a wonderful article! Every child is different and should be parented differently! I couldn't agree more!

I am worried that I am a pushy parent now - teaching DS English and German, his letters and numbers (just in a pointing-them-out way, not in a strict way I hasten to add!), piano "lessons" (or how to hit the piano keys less hammer-like), table manners (or "forks can be used for food transportation") then DH teaching DS how to draw, kick balls, walk alone... are we just responding to a bright toddler or are we pushy?