I am so livid at the way you were treated. Doesn't matter if you had been 14yo, these people need to be shot. What makes one birthing woman less deserving of respect and care than another? Absolutely nothing.
I, too, agree with Maya here - I was appalled at how you were treated - so what that you were 19 at the time?! My DH is a school teacher and had a 14yo pregnant and you know, nowerdays it doesn't surprise me. I hate the people that judge others on age... and the whole 'Single, young and only in it for the baby bonus'
Its disgusting that a medical professional would think that.. I'm so sorry you had to go through that - and I applaud you and send massive kudos to you for a brilliantly written birth story