hi just here to say that your not alone with the service that you had. i was 17 and i had to have a caesarian and i didnt have a choice (my baby was breech and lying transverse) the dr didnt even ask if it was what i wanted, had the caeser with no troubles next day came and they were ready to chuck me out and there was one night nurse that treated me like i was dirt and that i didnt know anything simmler to your exp, months went bye and i was still bleeding and id been to the drs on nurmerous occasions and they continued to say that it was a ginos problem so got a referal to him and he said that its not a ginos problem. another 2 or 3 months had passed and i was still bleeding without it stopping i enden up in hospital they took out my apendix and had a look and they found a busted cyst and that the bleeding was caused by blood flowing the wrong way in my ovarys. i was lucky they found it when they did cos if it had of been another few days i could have died. i knew there was somthing wrong but no1 would listen to me.
OMG WOW! I just watched the video from when my boy was born and guess what? He was bloody posterior lol. No wonder it was a back labour. All that came out, other than of course him and the placenta, was a little bit of bloody mucus... other than that it was completely dry. I am really glad I watched it though as it has really settled me to see exactly what went on and there is a lil more I could add but I prefer to leave it as is but I can definately say that after watching it I was right and it did go exactly how I remember which is really good, mentally, for me, plus I am no longer scared to go though it again now that I know that it was because he was posterior
I am so glad you got some closure after watching the birth on video! That is a nice ending to a pretty horrific tale. I can't believe how badly you were treated by the hospital and your birthing staff. You did so incredibly well to bring your little man into the world against such opposition. I am really impressed with your strength and positivity.
So pleased to read that you are not scared to go through it again, that is so important. All the best with ttc!
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