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thread: Birth story for sebastian --- failed vbac

  1. #19
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    Congratulations on your gorgeous son.

    Well done on holding off for so long. You did an amazing job.

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    You really did so well.

    Congratulations

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    Oh congratulations honey. What a wonderful story and what an amazing effort you did to try and bring bub into the world.
    A lovely read.

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    thanks so much for sharing. Loved reading it. Congrats on the birth of your gawjus lil blue bundle xx

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    you failed nothing! great outcome!

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    Thank you for sharing your story, I hope you've come to terms with his choice of arrival. Not a fail at all :-)

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    Thanks ladies

    Its good to be able to go back and read through this. Makes me more determined for next time round

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    Thanks for sharing Minny - i'm hoping for a VBA2C (any day now lol).


    FWIW you didn't fail at all hun!

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    Thanks for sharing! You said failed VBAC? Do you still feel that way? Are you happy you tired??
    Congratulations of the birth, i think you did an amazing job!

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    Thanks for sharing! You said failed VBAC? Do you still feel that way? Are you happy you tired??
    Congratulations of the birth, i think you did an amazing job!
    Thanks hun, i am certainly glad i did try, there was never any doubt i would to be honest schedualing a ceaser just didnt sit right for me.
    I still feel that i somewhat failed as theres aways those "what if" questions that could have somehow changed the outcome. But i know deep down that i didnt have any control over him becoming distressed and i gave it the best shot i could

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    3 days of labouring, what a determined woman you are! Sorry it didn't turn out as you hoped but you gave it everything and more. Welcome to little Sebastian! xo
    ^^ couldn't have put it better myself. I hope you are recovering well and enjoying your family of 4. Xxx

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    Congratulations & welcome Sebastian. You did an amazing job, giving birth is an awesome feat no matter the way it's done or the outcome



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    Thanks hun, i am certainly glad i did try, there was never any doubt i would to be honest schedualing a ceaser just didnt sit right for me.
    I still feel that i somewhat failed as theres aways those "what if" questions that could have somehow changed the outcome. But i know deep down that i didnt have any control over him becoming distressed and i gave it the best shot i could
    I think the what if haunt us for life as birth is one of the only things we can never re do til we get it right because with every different child there is a new element we havent considered! Well thats what i have found.....

    Congratulations again it was a well written story and i think it will help other women trying to VBAC!

    Thanks for not thinking i was asking a too personal question

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    I think the what if haunt us for life as birth is one of the only things we can never re do til we get it right because with every different child there is a new element we havent considered! Well thats what i have found.....

    Congratulations again it was a well written story and i think it will help other women trying to VBAC!

    Thanks for not thinking i was asking a too personal question
    Thanks hun xox

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