Hey Grubi, wow what an experience you got! I totally feel for you hun! I have been there with the having papers shoved in your face and just not being able to comprehend what is going on! I was only 16 at the time and scared sh#tless, i don't think age matters at all its just hugely traumatic. Back near on 17yrs ago we didnt have these places to come and get it off our chest though! I truly find these forums a blessing. I truly feel for you and DH as someone else said it must have been so hard for him to watch the woman he loves so much go through all that and not be able to help or fix it for her! Huge :hugs: for you and DH i truly hope he feels he can come and talk to you in the near future so that you can both fully heal! Yay for Greer being here and love the nickname for her! Enjoy your too posh to be pushed little girl and thanks for sharing!