Min,

I had a different than expected time in my labour too - I have written up most of my labour story, and for a while there I cried every time I started writing.
Just remember that having a c/s doesn't mean that your little boy isn't yours, and of course you gave birth to him!! Your OB sounds like he needs a slap around the ears, but the big positive to it all is you have your little boy safe.

Well done for an honest account of things, it will help to make you feel better.
Fi