thread: Leo's awesome vaginal breech birth *extremely long & detailed*

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    Posted by: ~Trish~
    On: September 8th, 2010 02:50 PM

    Wow, what an amazing birth! You did such a brilliant job Tash, I'm glad you and Leo could do that together .

    Thank you so much for sharing your story, I'm sure it was hard to put into words, but you wrote it so beautifully .
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    Posted by: aussienic
    On: September 8th, 2010 02:50 PM

    your title says it all

    you and your Dh did such a wonderful job..
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    Posted by: Jewel
    On: September 8th, 2010 02:54 PM

    What an amazing birth. You did such an awesome job.


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    Posted by: human bean
    On: September 8th, 2010 03:08 PM

    Thank you for sharing your amazing birth story with us, you did such a fantastic job
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    Posted by: Snowy Love
    On: September 8th, 2010 03:16 PM

    Beautiful story! Congratulations on your birth of your son, I'm sorry he couldn't stay.
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    Posted by: Anila
    On: September 8th, 2010 03:22 PM

    Thankyou for sharing your story.
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    Posted by: CheezelMonster
    On: September 8th, 2010 03:47 PM

    Thank you for sharing Leo's birth story, you did such a wonderful job.
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    Posted by: Fleur
    On: September 8th, 2010 03:48 PM

    What an amazing, beautiful birth story. Thank you so much for sharing.
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    Posted by: Fleur
    On: September 8th, 2010 03:55 PM

    I a'm so sorry he couldn't stay
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    Posted by: MusicLover83
    On: September 8th, 2010 04:02 PM

    Thank you for sharing your birth story. You and your DH are courageous. Sending you both many hugs and comfort.
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    Posted by: Janie71
    On: September 8th, 2010 05:05 PM

    Thank you for sharing your story with us. You gave your son a truly beautiful birth and I am sure he is looking down on you so very proud to call you Mumma.

    My heart is breaking for you that you never got to take him home. Life is really so unfair at times.

    You bravery is inspiring.

    Janie xxx
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    Posted by: Persephone1
    On: September 8th, 2010 05:10 PM

    Tash, you are amazing. I'm in awe at your strength and courage in pursuing your natural birth even without the initial support from the hospital staff. What a wonderful birth story.

    I think about you and Leo every day. I'm so sorry that he passed away. You are such an amazing mother and I'm sure Leo would have been proud of you.
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    Posted by: Jaycee
    On: September 8th, 2010 05:14 PM

    Thank you for sharing Leo's birth story with us xxx
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    Posted by: starangelk
    On: September 8th, 2010 05:29 PM

    Tashybabe, thank you for sharing your story of your amazing birth with your amazing Leo. I have tears reading of your experience and have no words other than to offer my sincerest condolences. You seem like such a strong and amazing woman and please remember during your toughest times, to write a story like this is a testament to that strength. Xx
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    Posted by: thepixie
    On: September 8th, 2010 07:44 PM

    Beautiful birth story Tash.... thank you for sharing
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    Posted by: Lenny
    On: September 8th, 2010 08:31 PM

    Tash, thank you so much for sharing your story of Leo's vaginal breech birth. You should be incredibly proud of your acheivement of birthing Leo despite what was going on around you.
    I am very much in awe of your courage.

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    Posted by: *Infinity*
    On: September 8th, 2010 09:13 PM

    Tash, thank you for sharing your story of Leo's entrance earthside. You are one strong woman, never forget that. You write beautifully, and you are truly an inspiration.
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    Posted by: Epacris
    On: September 8th, 2010 09:28 PM

    Congratulations on such a beautiful, warm and loving birth. Thank you so much for sharing Leo’s story.
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    Posted by: Divvy
    On: September 8th, 2010 09:29 PM

    Tash, I'm so proud of you. You are a wonderful woman and I'm simply in awe. Congratulations on the birth of Leo. I'm so sorry he couldn't stay.
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    Posted by: Lulu
    On: September 8th, 2010 09:35 PM

    Oh Tash, you write so well! I LOL'ed at that the image of Leo's little bum with a plum presenting to the world *grin
    Loved the detail - a terrific source of info for anyone facing (bumming ) a breech birth.

    xoxox
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    Posted by: OceanPrincess
    On: September 8th, 2010 09:52 PM

    What an awesome birth. You are a wonder woman and I am amazed.
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    Posted by: jackrose
    On: September 8th, 2010 10:49 PM

    It has taken me all day to read this Tashybabe. I have had the window open but wanted to be able to give it my full attention. Plus, I guess I knew what was coming and I wanted to be prepared. Not something you had the luxury of.

    Thank you so much for sharing your story. Your attitude to your birth is amazing. I was actually prepared for this before you even gave birth based on your posts on BB while you were pregnant. I had read your posts in various sections and was so looking forward to following your journey through your birth and beyond. I still am now. The insight you have here and the story you have told is inspiring, emotional and human and shows you to be quite an incredible person.

    Allowing people to learn from your experience, not just now but also during the birth when you realised Leo was a breech is so wonderful. You are such a giving, open person. The benefits of this can not be measured but they are huge. It is a bit like that movie 'Pay it forward'. Little bits of kindness to a few people can extend to reach so many more so quickly. I have a friend whose baby died very shortly after birth last year and I have learnt so much more about it from your story. Your story will have an effect so many people this way. In addition, a breech birth! The medical profession saw it was possible when before their eyes a powerful woman gave birth to her son. It is inspiring and a gift to the next women who present with their baby bum first. Congratulations.

    I'm sorry you missed out on your homebirth, but so happy you were able to have a natural delivery. I imagine it makes you feel that much closer to dear little Leo. I was so happy to read about the fabulous support you had from your DH and the wonderful midwife. You chose well and all that work preparing for Leo's birth really paid off to have such wonderful people around you so that you were able to birth your way. How wonderful to have felt him moving down your birth canal, to have felt him kicking. Wonderful but still, it is not enough in some ways as you really deserved to have your baby boy in your arms as you went home. It is such an unfair thing Tashybabe but you have described it with an incredible air of grace and strength and I have learnt a lot for reading it.
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    Posted by: beckoes
    On: September 9th, 2010 01:00 AM

    no words, just sending my love to you and your DH and your amazing little fighter! Im so sorry Leo couldnt stay with you for longer. What an amazing birth, like you said, Leos gift! hugs to you
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    Posted by: Tanstar
    On: September 9th, 2010 07:42 AM

    Such an inspirational and beautiful story for your gorgeous boy. Huge congratulations on such a wonderful birth and I'm so sorry he couldn't stay with you.
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    Posted by: *Beema*
    On: September 9th, 2010 09:02 AM

    I read this last night and you brought me to tears, it was the most beautiful birth stroy I have read, thankyou for taking the time, energy and I am sure many tears to share with us something so truely amazing and inspirational.
    You birthed Leo is the most perfect way possible and I am so glad you were able to experience that
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    Posted by: Bun
    On: September 9th, 2010 10:39 AM

    Thank you for sharing such a beautiful story with us. You did a wonderful job birthing your little boy and you should feel very proud of yourself for your strength. I am so sorry your little man couldn't stay with you hun. I have been following you and I can't express how much I wish the outcome could have been different. You are always in my thoughts xx
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    Posted by: sloane
    On: September 9th, 2010 10:51 AM

    thank you for sharing your birth story - you did an amazing job! an inspirational story for anyone facing a breech birth. i wish your little man could have stayed
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    Posted by: Joeve
    On: September 9th, 2010 11:03 AM

    Congrats on the birthing of baby Leo. You did an awesome job and I know he would be so proud of the way you brought him into the world. May he be watching down over you forever xxx
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    Posted by: Liviam
    On: September 9th, 2010 11:15 AM

    You gave your gorgeous little man the most beautiful gift of being birthed. Your birth story is absolutely amazing. Thank you so much for sharing with us.
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    Posted by: sasha
    On: September 9th, 2010 11:58 PM

    What an wonderful job you did, breech and all! And how fantastic that you could allow others who wouldn't normally have witnessed a breech to be there - I'm sure that will help other women who want to also birth their babies vaginally. Good on you.

    I'm so, so sad that Leo couldn't stay. You must miss him so much. Sending you light.
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    Posted by: dragoncookie
    On: September 10th, 2010 09:25 AM

    Thanks for sharing tashybabe.

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    Posted by: MamaSpice
    On: September 10th, 2010 09:37 AM

    A beautiful story. Thankyou for sharing
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    Posted by: Cassius2
    On: September 10th, 2010 03:57 PM

    wow. what an amazing birth journey! thank you so so much for sharing this precious moment in Leo's life!

    I had to giggle at the bit where he was kicking away during the pushing... *mwah* cheeky little monkey

    Thank you from the bottom of my heart Tash, truly amazing xx

    P.S. I *think* i'm in love with your midwife! what an amazing support and advocate for you guys throughout that time in hospital...a breech birth and all!

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    Such a beautiful birth for such a precious angel.

    Sorry for your loss.

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    Thank you for sharing your story Tashybabe, it is so powerful and moving. It is also a great read, you are a wonderful writer. It is very courageous and generous of you to share this and it seems that I am one of many who have been inspired by you.

    I read some of your posts before Leo was born and really admired you for choosing a homebirth for your first baby and for your fantastic attitude towards everything. You did an amazing job in giving birth to Leo, I am so sorry he could not stay with you.

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    Thank you for sharing your story. I am so sorry for your loss.

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    I know this thread isn't that recent, but I couldn't read without posting...

    Tash, my heart hurts for your loss. Thank you for being brave enough to share your story with us.
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