I too had PE with #1 however not as severe as what you have all described. I didnt need hospitalisation and after monitoring my bp and swelling over several visits, when the protein ++ started I was allowed home if I promised to rest as it was Easter. That visit was on the Thurs before Good Friday and I had to go back on the Tuesday after which was my EDD. From that visit I was told I would be going to hospital that night, I had to have some blood work done and would be monitored with the possibility of having things started in the morning. We did need to get things started and Jacksen was born at 8lb 2oz so definately not small at all. After reading your stories I am grateful as I made it to 40 weeks. 2nd pregnancy went by with no PE or bp problems but unfortunately this time round, I was diagnosed with high bp before even conceiving so am on meds twice a day (aldomet), the start of this pgcy bp was on the high side, but the last two visits have been at an all time low. My ob has told me not to take it as a 'I'm free' card as quite often he sees people with hypertension read low then sky rocket. I am 27 weeks now, and am taking it week by week hanging for each appt. I feel great but am so aware of any little sign.

You all deserve huge hugs with what has gone on / is going on and I am hoping that all all (and me) continue as far as you can - Tara, I hope you have avoided the hospital, let us know how you are when you can. I have a 5 & 3 yr old, and am doing every thing possible to avoid hospitalisation as I couldnt even imagine trying to rearrange everything (kinder 5 days a week) before 38 weeks. So my heart goes out to you. I think its wonderful you partner is wanting to learn all about it.

Fletch - hopefully you've managed an appt and all is ok - but if not, my fingers are crossed for you hon!